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3/17/2012

The Birth: Plan vs Reality

Labor
-          We intend to have a Natural Birth
o   I went Natural until we went in for the C-section
-          We know pain medication and epidural is available, please do not offer them.  We will ask if we want them.
o   The nurses were very good about this until C-section
-          Please help us by suggesting natural pain relief options.  And numerous positions while pushing.
o   The nurses helped with different positions and breathing techniques until C-section
-          Help us to keep the birthing room calm, quiet and as peaceful as possible.
o   Most the time it was just Mike and I in the room, until issues came up
-          Intermittent fetal monitoring and a heparin lock are preferred.  Megan will naturally hydrate with water.
o   Again this was done until issues came up
-          We would like to be allowed to progress free of stringent time limits and have my labor augmented only if necessary
o   Because of the heart decals we had to have C-section
-          When pushing I’d like to do it instinctively and be allowed to progress without a time constraint as long as the baby and I are doing ok.
o   Never got to this point
-          I would prefer not to have an episiotomy.
o   Never got to this point

If a C-section becomes necessary we would like
-          Mike to present at all times during the operation
o   It took him a really long time to get into the operating room
-          the screen lowered a bit so I can see my baby being delivered
o   Nope
-          the baby to be given to my partner as soon as s/he's dried, if appropriate
o   Nope
-          to breastfeed my baby in the recovery room
o   Nope

After birth
-          Mike would like to cut the cord, if baby is healthy please wait until after the cord as stopped pulsing
o   Nope
-          We do not know the sex of Blueberry, DH would like to announce the sex.
o   Nope
-           If a medical emergency shall arise with the baby Mike will accompany the baby at all times
o   Mike got to go with him after the C-section, only came to recovery to help calm me down
-          Immediate skin to skin contact with mom is planned
o   Nope… 5 hours later
-          We plan to breastfeed and would like to within the first hour.  Please hold all testing, weighing and bath until we have had a chance to try and bond.
o   Haha Nope
-          We plan to breastfeed.  Please do not offer Blueberry a bottle or a pacifier
o   He was not given a bottle until it was required because of his blood sugar and Mike gave it to him.  His had only had a pacifier during his circumcision.    
-          All tests on baby shall be done in our presence, preferably in our room.
o   Most were.

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